Gina and I decided we wanted both of the kids to have a year-long memory project — something they could memorize and be really proud of. In just three weeks of school, Meagan has already conquered hers:
A wife of noble character who can find?
She is worth far more than rubies.
Her husband has full confidence in her
and lacks nothing of value.
She brings him good, not harm,
all the days of her life.
She selects wool and flax
and works with eager hands.
She is like the merchant ships,
bringing food from afar.
She gets up while it is still dark;
she provides food for her family
and portions for her servant girls.
She considers a field and buys it;
out of her earnings she plants a vineyard.
She sets about her work vigorously;
her arms are strong for her tasks.
She sees that her trading is profitable,
and her lamp does not go out at night.
In her hand she holds the distaff
and grasps the spindle with her fingers.
She opens her arms to the poor
and extends her hands to the needy.
When it snows, she has no fear for her household;
for all of them are clothed in scarlet.
She makes coverings for her bed;
she is clothed in fine linen and purple.
Her husband is respected at the city gate,
where he takes his seat among the elders of the land.
She makes linen garments and sells them,
and supplies the merchants with sashes.
She is clothed with strength and dignity;
she can laugh at the days to come.
She speaks with wisdom,
and faithful instruction is on her tongue.
She watches over the affairs of her household
and does not eat the bread of idleness.
Her children arise and call her blessed;
her husband also, and he praises her:
“Many women do noble things,
but you surpass them all.”
Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting;
but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.
Give her the reward she has earned,
and let her works bring her praise at the city gate.
I spent my last 6 years of school in a Christian school. It was a good experience for me and it exposed me to much truth. It also sheltered me from many temptations that probably would have proved too much for me. I am glad and thankful for my Christian school experience.
However, the church we have been attending has decided to started a Christian school and this saddens me. When we started attending this church, we were intrigued by how many of the members of the church homeschooled their children. The members of the church had formed a homeschool group that provided physical education every Friday morning, and our kids looked forward to it every week.
Homeschooling is a way of life for us and we treasure it. We would not want to do school any other way. We feel that our kids are getting a far superior education and they are getting it from their loving parents. Gina reads to the kids as part of school and they regularly beg for more. It appears, though, that most of the members of our church viewed their homeschooling as a necessary evil. All of the families that I know of used Abeka, with the exception of one family that used Bob Jones. My interpretation of how these programs work is that the stay-at-home parent puts in the video and the kids watch the video for hours every day. We call this school at home, which is not the same as what we do. But regardless, the kids are still home with at least one parent all day, every day.
We believe that providing an education is the responsibility of the parent. We believe that in providing the homeschool environment/experience to our children, we are also providing them with an atmosphere in which they can grow strong without being buffeted by the temptations of this world — they are sheltered and I like it that way.
So, why does the foundation of a Christian school sadden me? Because all of these families have decided to stop homeschooling, to stop spending all these hours with their own children, and ship their children off for several hours of every day to receive instruction and discipline from some other. Now the children will come home with experiences that their parents will not have knowledge of and may not understand, and worse yet, the children may never tell their parents of many of their experiences, so the parents will not be able to assist the child in interpreting the events that occurred.
Bottom line, I see the foundation of this Christian school as tearing apart families. The church used to be made up of strong families — that bond will be torn as a result of this Christian school. And I am saddened by it.